Everybody would like to live in happiness, joy harmony and unconditional love that was my goal. So why do most of us continue to follow paths that do not provide peace, happiness and joy. Most of the time, we feel that if we have a concept down and a goal clearly in our mind, we can accomplish the task. In my research, I have found that most people put honest effort into changing their attitudes and behavior so as to reclaim their self esteem and self worth. But many do not seem able to accomplish their goal, so they become discouraged, frustrated and disappointed. When we evaluate what's needed to empower ourselves, to change our path, to reclaim our self esteem, we overlook the fact that our belief systems, along with our conscious irrational middle self coupled with subconscious mind, are very powerful. The challenge is that we may have the concept down in our conscious decision-making mind, but we must have acceptance from all four mind. I have found that conscious mind must be aligned with the subconscious mind, or you will be sabotaged. We are unable to get our mind to work for us until we remove conscious controlling mind. However, you will be unable to see the middle self and Inner situation until you can recognize it and believe it. If you suppress or stuff your feelings, an illusion l will block your recognition of a problem situation. If you deny the problem, it does not exist in your reality. Of course, that doesn't mean that the situation does not exist it just does not exist for you. It still exists separate from your willingness to recognize it. Psychologists are interested in happiness for two reasons. First, psychologists study happiness because laypeople are interested in happiness. When people from around the world are asked to list the things that are most important to them, happiness consistently tops the list. People rank attaining happiness as being more important than acquiring money, maintaining good health, and even going to heaven. Psychologists believe that they can help people achieve this goal of being happy by studying the factors that are associated with happiness. A second reason why psychologists study happiness is because a person's evaluative responses to the world may provide information about the basic characteristics of human nature. One of the most basic principles guiding psychological theory is that people and animals are motivated to approach things in the world that cause pleasure and to avoid things in the world that cause pain