there are so many ways we communicate online. There is email, text messaging and different apps out there that support it. But using email or messaging is not always the most effective way to communicate. In certain circumstances, you should avoid them. sure, it is easy to hide behind your computer and say what you want to say through the keyboard. But sometimes you need to step out into the world and use your voice. Here are a few situations where it would be better if you did not hit send. Avoid hitting send to resolve conflict. We have all been part of an email or message string between two parties trying to resolve an issue. sometimes. In the end, what was perhaps a relatively small issue has become a much bigger one. So, face meeting. If your are the recipient of an email or message from someone else trying to resove an issue, resist the temptation to respond though email. If email is your only option, do not copy other people on it. Doing so escalates the issue. Avoid hitting send when you are upset, After an upsetting situation or interaction, what need is a cooling down period. Email and messaging do not let you calm down. So, avoid that, and once you have calmed down, call or visit the individual to discuss the situation. if you are on the receiving end of a rude email, avoid the urge to reply. give yourself time to calm down and then call the person and ask to discuss face-to-face. In the future, decide in advance that you will never use email or messaging when you are upset. If you feel need to write something when you are upset, hand write a message. Avoid hitting send to send bad news. No one likes to receive bad news and receiving it through email or a message can add salt to the wound. Using email or messaging to communicate bad news can send the message that you do not care or that the issue is not important enough to warrant your personal attention.